
Use mercy in war, and you win,use it for defence,and you are secure.
(Lao Tzu)
What is control? Control is the attempt to assert your will over something or somebody else.People have ideas,
Humanity has spent centuries attempting to bend the
Motive Taoism asks the question: what is your purpose in seeking to control another? Why would you want to? Some people would argue: "It is for their own good."But who are you to decide what is good for somebody else? Would you steal another person's free will? On what basis can you decide?
Foundation We are all educated and conditioned to think in certain ways. Our culture makes us conform within a strict pattern of social behaviour. This is the foundation of our thoughts and to some extent the basis for any ideas we have. Given our conditioning, can our ideas necessarily be trusted?
Were they grown in healthy soil?
Control and Karate
Karate advocates working in harmony with the structural capacities of your body. It aims to work within the range of natural movement, to complement the body and its rhythms. Nothing is forced. Ideas are subtly offered and the body allowed time to consider and change according to comfort. Sensation is valued over thought. Controlling yourself Until you have found harmony within your own body and mind, how can you consider any attempt to control another? Your own body must be balanced, stable and centred. Your thoughts must be calm, natural and compassionate.Unless you can act in accordance with the flow of things, your attempt at control will fail. Taoism advocates leading without taking control, shepherding from amongst the flock rather than standing at the front and asserting yourself. If people are unaware of your influence will they be troubled by it? Can people resist what they cannot feel? If you do not assume leadership, nobody can ever oppose you. Wanting leadership creates division - it operates on a principle of boss and underling - and can only lead to resentment and failure. Controlling others The main skills required in controlling others are adaptation and change. You must move as they move, be sensitive to what is happening. Your presence must be so slight that they cannot find reason to resist you. Force is not even used. People will often willingly give you control, allow you to influence them. Treat this responsibility with respect. Control in self defence If we are balanced within ourselves and can move sensitively in response to another person, then we may consider self defence.
Karate advocates working in harmony with the structural capacities of your body. It aims to work within the range of natural movement, to complement the body and its rhythms. Nothing is forced. Ideas are subtly offered and the body allowed time to consider and change according to comfort. Sensation is valued over thought. Controlling yourself Until you have found harmony within your own body and mind, how can you consider any attempt to control another? Your own body must be balanced, stable and centred. Your thoughts must be calm, natural and compassionate.Unless you can act in accordance with the flow of things, your attempt at control will fail. Taoism advocates leading without taking control, shepherding from amongst the flock rather than standing at the front and asserting yourself. If people are unaware of your influence will they be troubled by it? Can people resist what they cannot feel? If you do not assume leadership, nobody can ever oppose you. Wanting leadership creates division - it operates on a principle of boss and underling - and can only lead to resentment and failure. Controlling others The main skills required in controlling others are adaptation and change. You must move as they move, be sensitive to what is happening. Your presence must be so slight that they cannot find reason to resist you. Force is not even used. People will often willingly give you control, allow you to influence them. Treat this responsibility with respect. Control in self defence If we are balanced within ourselves and can move sensitively in response to another person, then we may consider self defence.
Gojuryu Karate works on the principle of yielding to force.You must move around the opponent's force, circumvent their strength and use only the minimum of power to defeat them. Since their is no merit in harming others, Karate seeks solutions to attack which reduce the need for further conflict. It is better to shock the opponent than harm them. We would only harm the aggressor if there were no other choice available.